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How is it that when we change, everything around us changes too? When we shift our mindset, become truly positive—not hiding behind fake optimism or pretending all is well—everything in our lives starts to improve. But why does this happen, and how can healing our wounds, both past and present, create such a profound shift in our reality?
True Positivity vs. Fake Positivity
There’s a big difference between true positivity and false positivity. Fake positivity is when we try to hide our pain behind a mask, pretending everything is fine. This type of positivity doesn’t bring real change—it only pushes our struggles deeper into the shadows.
True positivity, on the other hand, comes from a place of growth and healing. It’s the kind of positivity that arises when we face our unhealed traumas with love, understanding, and grace. When we take the time to work through our pain instead of ignoring it, we begin to change internally—and that’s when everything outside of us starts to change too.
Healing Wounds and Transforming Relationships
When we grow mentally or spiritually, we begin to heal the open wounds from our past. These wounds may come from our own life experiences or even from ancestral traumas passed down through generations. As we heal, we realize that it wasn’t the outside world causing us pain—it was the wounds within ourselves.
As you heal, your relationship with your wounds changes. When this happens, your relationship with the people and energies that used to trigger those wounds changes as well. People who once had the power to upset you or stir up negative emotions no longer have that influence over you.
The things that used to bother you no longer seem important. The wounds you’ve healed turn into light, allowing you to see through low-vibe energies and toxic people around you. You become more aware of who they are, but they no longer affect you in the same way.
Setting Boundaries and Protecting Your Energy
Even though your healed wounds no longer trigger you, it’s essential to set strong boundaries with low-vibe people and situations. Just because their negativity doesn’t affect you the way it used to doesn’t mean you should allow them into your space.
You consciously choose to limit their access to your time, energy, and resources. You protect yourself, your vitality, and your loved ones by creating healthy boundaries. You understand that low-vibe energies are often the result of deep, unhealed wounds in others—wounds they may not even realize they have. As the saying goes, hurt people hurt people.
But because you’ve healed your own wounds, their behavior no longer impacts you. You’ve shifted your energy, and now you no longer engage with their negativity. Even if you can’t fully explain it, you know you’re not interested in spending more time or energy on people or situations that don’t serve your growth or peace.
How Healing Changes Your World
When you heal, everything around you changes. You might not notice it right away, but as your inner world transforms, your outer world begins to reflect that change. The people you interact with, the opportunities that come your way, and the energy you attract all shift in response to your healing.
This is the beauty of true growth and self-love. As you heal your wounds, you stop living in a reactionary state. You stop being triggered by the past, and you start creating a life that aligns with peace, positivity, and higher vibrations.
When you choose healing, you’re choosing to transform your world into a more positive, harmonious, and peaceful place. It’s like creating a personal heaven where you’re no longer tied to the low-vibe energies that once held you back.
Opening Space for New Energies and Relationships
As we heal and choose to set boundaries with the unhealed, we may initially feel a sense of isolation. It can be challenging to distance ourselves from people or situations that once felt familiar, even if they were harmful. However, by creating this space, we actually open ourselves to new energies and relationships that are more aligned with our growth. New friendships, connections, and harmonious relationships begin to flow into our lives, filling the void left by the toxic influences we’ve moved away from.
As each of us heals, more and more people choose harmony and peace over chaos and negativity. When the healed outnumber the unhealed, this shift ripples out, and the world begins to change. By choosing to live in our own version of heaven, we automatically contribute to creating a more peaceful and balanced world for everyone.
